Create the life you desire

 

This week we’re going switch from discussing business, goals, and desires to a life you love.  Majority of people I meet are living a life not very fulfilling. They complain they don’t have anyone to share their life with, or they don’t love the job they’re in but don’t know how to find a meaningful job worthy of loving. My answer is always the same, the life you love can only be obtained if you create the life you want to live. That means follow your passion and either find the job that you love, or create it, it’s that simple.  So it’s up to you how you live your life, boring or a life you love to live. There are three things you must utilize to kick start your life in the right direction.

1)      Believe in yourself and create that life you would love to live.

If you don’t believe it is possible, it will never happen. You must believe you are worthy of living a life worthy of loving and then set things in motion. When your belief system is aligned with your desires, things will begin to change for you. If you can visualize it, it will eventually happen. But you can’t be sitting on your butt and expect it to happen, you have to work for it. That means work hard for what you want, because it won’t be given to you on a silver platter, unless you come from serious money and a butler will show up at your door and hand it to you. So open your eyes and realize you have to work for what you want.

2)      Describe what your life that you love would look like if given a chance to obtain it?

Close your eyes and believe in yourself then try to picture what your life would look like if given the chance to love your life. Create that picture in your mind and be sure to not leave anything out, will there be a love of a mate in your life? Will you own a home? What type of job will you be preforming every day? Hint, this picture is your life not someone else’s. This picture must be what you desire it to look like and be, not your parents, siblings, friends, or significant other, it must be yours, and yours alone. Write the details down on paper in a notebook or journal. Don’t set the paper aside, tape to your bathroom mirror, vanity mirror, front door or fridge door, as long as you will see it daily and are able to read each day to remind yourself what you’re working for.

3)      Make it so!

      It’s action time! The goal is to remove the picture of your new life out of you mind’s eye and make it a reality.  What will you need to do to make it happen? One step at a time, then continue moving forward, never stop until you’ve achieved your goals to live a life you love, work at a job you are passionate about, overcoming those obstacles and achieving what you dream your life of fulfilled desires would be in life. Ultimate goal is to live a life you love and know it is absolutely possible to achieve. 

Author Elizabeth Kilbride is a former political operative, author, scriptwriter, historian, journalist. business professional, and creative artist, and life coach consultant. Ms. Kilbride holds a Masters in Criminology and a BS in Business Management who stepped out of the loop for a while, but who is now back with a powerful opinion and voice in the direction of this country and our economy. As a life coach, she is available to counsel individuals to enjoy their dreams and a better life. Ms. Kilbride loves to travel, photograph her surroundings and is also a gourmet cook who loves to garden and preserve food for the winter months.